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read this from a forum and thought it to be something deep Hmmmm... leaving a marriage over no sex. No way it's all about sex. Maybe it is simply a low libido but more likely the end result of other stuff going on. If my husband wasn't willing to acknowledge something important to me ... something "I" saw as a problem in our relationship and work through it with me I would become very resentful. Resentment seeps through all the cracks. Stonewalling in a marriage is selfish and just wrong. To spend everyday with someone, well not just someone - but the one person I chose to spend the rest of my life with, and know they have no desire to be intimate with me (or deal with the real issue) would crush me - even if it was their hang up.I would walk ... it might take a long time before I walked but I would eventually walk. I bet I would even look back and wonder why I stayed so long (actually I know about this part) ... life is very - very short. It's the heart afraid of breaking that never learns to dance
