Wisdom ???

Another celebrity divorce! Honestly I thought good looking couples/spouses had easier marriages but it looks like good looks does not guarantee good communication and feelings.

Sometimes when both get too distant cos each focusing on work and family responsibilities you forget then the core to a family is the parents relationship. People mistake distance/independence for no more feelings. But that is what independence does - telling each other to lead your own lifestyle.

Perhaps if detected early things could have been salvaged with a bit of couple time to understand each other.

Sometimes it take a wrong to know what's right
For that wrong, you know you have grown stronger
When you learn reflect and laugh at yourself
And you are just as happy :)

Wendy*6
Because happiness is just a stone's throw away
If you're on the right track

Dejavu

Ok this is scary
Imagine writing fragments of your imagination
And poof it really happened exactly the same
And you dont realize it
Serious shit dejavu

Ok the dive trip made me feel so much better
Like a reborn
Feeling more positive
At least it felt better knowing guys still wanna know me
But what was important is that
I learnt that nothing is too difficult for me:)
I get afraid but I faced it
Now I am not afraid of fishes yay

And all these period of emotional turmoil
Finally I am settled down
Void of emotions perhaps
Tired of these perhaps

Thanks to diving
Am so gonna look forward

Just read the papers on sexless rs goin well
Its ok if both do not have the desire
But if one is on a different tune
Then it will cause a drift

Then I read mabels post on a cheating qife
Ita unfair why the guy says
If a man cheats it is understandable
But if the women cheats
The men will never accept it

So men can hurt their wives and not women ?

I dont mean to say cheating or hurting one another is right
But y so unfair
If wife reject sex ppl blame the wife for not doing her dutiez thus hubby go out haveaffair
But hubby reject sex wife is a bitch?

There is no reason for cheating
Cheating is wrong

But sometimes who is to blame?
The one who tried and gave up trying turning to cheating
Or the one who did nothing wrong but also did nothing to understand nor mend the rs

Who is wrong?

Sex intimacy can it really be out of a healthy rs totally?
I reckon the couples had a lot of sex before 33 so they don't mind stopping aex totally
I got 8 more years to go hahaha a bit too premature at 25 uh

Perhaps the elders were right
Never marry too young
Enjoy first then have a family
That includes havingmorfe sex partners and enjoy sex a lot a lot before getting matried haha

Anyway. Every couple has their own style.
at this juncture. Sex and intimacy is no longer in my list
People have to get independent someday
Some grow into it
Some are forced
I forced myself to be independent
And I realised
The best way not to get our feelings hurt
Is not to give any feelings in the first place.

Its feels good to revive myself.

JuzWendy*6
Sometimes we make the wrong choices. We do not regret. We reflect.